So, late last week one day, I ended up in this big rant on Facebook about middle school girls, inappropriate dress, laying it all in the lap of the parents, etc., etc. Saturday, I went to a great class at our church conference, listening to various kids who’d grown up in church talk about what it had been like for them as middle-schoolers and high-schoolers, what their parents did that helped and inspired them, what they had most needed, etc. I’m sitting there listening, and this young lady named Courtney was up there, and she started talking about how for a while she led a double life, keeping lots of stuff from her parents, including how she used to change clothes on the way to school. It hit me right between the eyes. I’ve known her parents for 26 years (not well, but I know them). I *KNOW* Penny did not buy Courtney no hootchie-mama clothes, so I knew how stupid what I had said was.
It reminded me of how before you’re married you think you know soooo much about relationships, and then you get married and find out you have no idea what you’re doing or how you think you know soooo much about parenting and think “Oh, I’ll never be one of THOSE parents”, and then you have kids and realize nearly everything you thought you knew was wrong and you aren’t really all that.
So, I’m standing here in my kitchen today w/egg on my face, eating…eating my words from last week. You know what? Self-righteousness doesn’t taste too good…